Don’t deny it. Everyone has at least thought about it at some point. Everyone has work crushes. One of my exes actually left me for a work crush-turned-real-deal. They’re married now.
When you’re a female who works in finance, you’re a rare commodity. Occasionally, one or two of your 99% male colleagues are also physically attractive. Naturally, you get tempted. And then you remember a million reasons that would be a really REALLY terrible idea and you let it go.